Have you ever visited someone’s house and thought—“Wow, it’s so beautiful, it feels so peaceful, I love this house.” That’s a house that resonates well with the energy of its occupants and with your energy as well. Or you visited someone else’s house and thought, “What’s up with that flocked wall paper? Oh my god, how could they have put that on the wall?” That house does not match your energy and its occupants no doubt don’t either.
Or if I suggest that you go home and read a book, I bet you’ll go home and curl up in your special chair, the one you feel most comfortable in, even though there may be an identical matching partner parked right next to it. It is the energy field that surrounds your special chair that makes you feel good!
Or a final example. Have you ever driven your partner crazy by rearranging the furniture or insisting that all the furniture be replaced? The urge to move or replace your furniture is an indication that you’ve changed and the furniture’s energy field no longer conforms to your new energy field. Or maybe you’ve really changed and you need to move out of the house and move away from your partner as well because the house and your spouse are no longer creating constructive interference patterns in your life!
The important point is that you shouldn’t let you rational mind discount what your inner voices are telling you, whether it’s to move your furniture, get rid of a painting that gives you the creeps, bring a new partner into your life, or in my case disengage from a neighbor who gives you the creeps (whole story in “The Honeymoon Effect”). If you pay attention to good and bad vibes, you’ll enhance your energy and when you enhance your energy you’ll enhance your life.